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How can I support my LGBTQ+ young person?
The fact that you are seeking out information shows that you love your child and that you want to make sure they are cared for. The basics of supporting an LGBTQ+ child is similar to supporting your child in any other life circumstance. Being willing to talk to them about their identity and listen to their point of view and their feelings surrounding it. There may be circumstances where you feel challenged and need to discuss these feelings or questions you may have with someone other than your child. In those circumstances, reaching out to PFLAG, another parent support group, affirming faith leaders, or a clinician is a great idea. PFLAG stands for Parents and Family of Lesbians and Gays and is a support group of families supporting other families. This groups is facilitated by people who have experienced similar circumstances to what you are experiencing now and can offer a great deal of support. Remember, that even if you are challenged by your young person’s identity, it is important to still show them love. Continue to hug them goodbye for school if that was part of your daily routine before knowing their LGBTQ+ identity. Continue to tell them you love them.
Another great way to show support is to continue to educate yourselves on the topic and community. Check out our video Learning About Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, and Gender Expression for information on different types of LGBTQ+ identities and how sexual orientation and gender identity develop. You should also watch our video Support for LGBTQ+ Youth Starts at Home. It is a great resource that discusses the importance of family support. For additional resources on family support, visit https://oregonlgbtqresources.org/.
Also, connecting your young person to support groups and LGBTQ+ community is really important for their positive self-identity. Being around other LGBTQ+ people can help them realize that they are perfectly healthy-good people who have loads of potential in life. Your young person might be interested in joining their school’s Gay Straight Alliance. Visit their website to learn more about this resource.
